where do you draw the line on helping your grown children with debts or big purchases, such as a car, house or college loan?
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February 26, 2010
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Notes to Self: Daily Reminders
- Overlook it. If you can't overlook it, forgive it.
- It's their life.
- If they want advice, they'll ask for it.
- Keep up your own interests.
- Be enthusiastic. It beats being critical.
- It's better to be liked than right.
- Let them treat you to something.
- Keep good-housekeeping tips to yourself
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